An Unhappy Marriage: How To Know When It's Really Over
An Unhappy Marriage: How To Know When It's Really Over

PIt's A Fact. There Are A Lot Of People Who Feel STRONGunhappySTRONG In Their Marriage. But The Real Question Many Of Them Are Asking Themselves Is, EMSTRONGhow Do I Know When My Marriage Is Really Over?STRONGEM PPIs It When Your Spouse Says, "I Don't Love You Anymore?" Is It After An Affair Takes Place? How Do You EMREALLYEM Know? Keep Reading To Find Out How To Identify The STRONGwarning SignsSTRONG That Often Indicate Your Spouse Has Given Up On Your Marriage. PPFirst And Foremost: Has Your Spouse Reached The Point Of No Return?PPWhat Is The Point Of No Return In A Marriage? Is There Such A Thing?nbsp; After Working With Couples For Over 11 Years, I've Identified A Specific "path" That Couples Travel On The Way To Divorce. And At The End Of This Path Is What I Call...STRONGThe Point Of No Return.STRONGPPBut I'm Getting Ahead Of Myself...let Me Back Up For A Second.PPIn Most Cases, Your Marriage Is NOT Over When:PP- Your Spouse Moves OutBR- When Your Spouse Says The Infamous, "I Love You, But I'm Not In Love With You Anymore" BR- When Your Spouse Threatens You With DivorcePPAnd Believe It Or Not, In Some Cases, Your Marriage Is NOT Even Over When...Uyour Spouse Files For Divorce.U PPYour Marriage Is NOT Over When Your Spouse Begs, Pleads, Argues, Screams, Storms Out Of The House Or Turns The Whole Family Against You.nbsp; BRnbsp;BRQuite The Contrary, The Point Of No Return In A Marriage IS Confirmed When Your Spouse Looks At You As If She Were Dead.nbsp; PPThere Is No Life In Your Spouse's Voice And No Life In Hisher Eyes. Your Spouse Doesn't Get Angry With You. She Simply Tells You When The Divorce Papers Are Going To Be Served. She's Already Gone To The Court House, Found An Attorney And Has A Service Date Set For The Divorce Proceedings.PPYour Marriage Is Most Likely Over When Your Spouse Has Made Complete Lists Of Assets And Debts With Your Both Of Your Names On Them.nbsp; Your Spouse Has Already Decided On The Custody Plan And Cleaned Out Any Bank Accounts With Their Name And Yours And Closed All The Credit Cards That You Share.nbsp; PPYour Spouse Has Reached The Point Of No Return When She Already Knows The Courts Require A 120 Day Waiting Period And She Has Emotionally Bolted Himherself In Place For The Long Wait. PPYou've Gone WAY Beyond An STRONG"unhappy Marriage"STRONG When Your Spouse Has Talked Many Times To The Children About Divorce And They Are Now Either Scared, Angry, Hurt, Confused Or STRONGemotionally Shut Down.STRONGnbsp; PPThere's A Good Chance Your Marriage Is Over When Your Spouse STRONGdoesn't Care About How Your Children Feel About It.nbsp;STRONG She Is Only Acting For Hisher Own Survival At This Point And She Has Repeatedly Convinced Himherself That EM"The Kids Are Good, They'll Be Fine."EM She May Have Even Said That To Friends And Relatives.BRnbsp;BRSTRONGThis Is The REAL Point Of No Return.STRONG I've Found That When Your Spouse Has Reached The Point Of No Return, No One Can Save Your Marriage At This Point.nbsp; Not A Priest, Pastor Or Marriage Counselor. PPSo How Did This Happen?PPA Marriage Gets To This Point Because We Live In A Society That Is Convinced That Once You Are Married, There Is Nothing You Need To Learn About Marriage And Nothing You Need To Practice.nbsp; PPEMAll You Need Is Love.EMnbsp; PPIf You Don't Have Love, Then It's All Your Fault That Your Marriage Failed.nbsp; Because Of This Belief, You Kept On Doing Exactly What You Always Did...your Version Of Love.nbsp; PPYou Treated Your Spouse The Same Way Your Father Treated Your Mother...or Vice Versa. You Kept On Doing The Same Thing And Kept On Getting The Same Results.nbsp; PPYour Spouse Could Not Help You To Help Himher. No Matter How Many Times She Told You How To Meet Hisher Needs, You Couldn't Hear...you Just Couldn't Understand.nbsp; BRnbsp;BRHow Do I Know This?nbsp; PPI Know It Because Every Single Divorce Is Built On The Same System.nbsp; When Your Emotional Needs Are Not Met In A Marriage, Anywhere From 1-3 Of The Situations Listed Below Will Begin To Take Place In Your Marriage.nbsp; PPBecause You Know Virtually Nothing About How To Be Married And How To Support Each Other's Needs, You Have No Way To Stop These Issues From Happening:PP- AffairBR- Sex FailureBR- Communication Break DownBR- No LoyaltyBR- In-Law ProblemsBR- Grew ApartBR- Fell Out Of LoveBR- Blended Family IssuesBR- Abusive AttitudesBR- DepressionBR- Angry SpouseBR- No RomanceBR- Ignores MeBR- Money ProblemsBR- Children ProblemsBR- Avoids MePPIf Your Spouse Has Not Yet Passed The Point Of No Return, You Can Still Save Your Marriage; STRONGthere Is Still Hope For The Two Of You.STRONG But You Need To Do Something STRONGTODAYSTRONG To Improve Your Unhappy Marriage. Believe Me, I Get Emails Daily With Stories About Marriages That Took A Turn For The Worst In A Matter Of WEEKS. PPThesenbsp;peoplenbsp;simply Waited Too Long And Before They Knew It, Their Spouse Had Reached The Point Of No Return. So My Message To You Is DON'T WAIT. Do Something For Your Marriage TODAY...before It's Too Late. You Can Start By Gettingnbsp;the FREE Marriage Advice You Can Use To A Href"http:www.marriage-success-secrets.com"fix Your MarriageA At The A Href"http:www.marriage-success-secrets.com"http:www.marriage-success-secrets.comA Website.nbsp;PPNote: This Article Is Not Legal Advice. It Is Not Meant To Replace Marriage Counseling. P